International College of Celebrancy
THE IMPORTANCE OF DELIVERING CEREMONIES WELL.
I cannot boast youth and beauty, but if you want a celebrant with experience and dedication, I might just be the celebrant for you. The substance of the ceremony, and especially the personal story and vows, should be totally authentic for the couple. I believe in onsite rehearsals and the careful planning of the readings, the proper introduction of participants, and the clear delineation of different components of the ceremony (including poetry, stories, myths, and moving prose). Of special importance is the music in ceremonies, how it is broadcast, and how it is presented to the assembled guests. The celebrant needs to research and discuss with the client all the components of the ceremony, and focus on clear delivery and an effective PA system where required.
By the way, I never stand between the bride and groom.
SHORT BUT MEANINGFUL CEREMONIES
Even though I believe in ceremonies as events that send powerful messages, I also recognise that, for special reasons, some couples opt for short but meaningful ceremonies.
FUNERALS
There is no such thing as a short cut to a good funeral. Every element—prose, poetry, symbolism, choreography, introductions, reminiscences by family and friends, the committal, and music should be carefully prepared and checked. Above all, the eulogy, the central element, should be thoughtfully composed and checked. This responsible process is very “labor-intensive”; -sufficient time is required. The only fair way to pay the celebrant is by an out-of-hours hourly rate.
Service Areas
Victoria
Melbourne City & Metropolitan
Port Phillip
Testimonials
Dally and Remi,we cannot thank you both enough. Your ceremony, Dally, blew us and our guests away. We are just on our way to the airport for our honeymoon and will be sure to be in touch with you upon our return. Much love,Ed and Jo xo
Ed and Jo
"We very much wanted to thank you again for doing such a wonderful job officiating at our wedding last Sunday. Peter and I thought you created a wonderful atmosphere, and indeed our guest were moved to tears (well, some of them!)"
Deb and Peter
"Thank you for the excellent job you did officiating at our marriage at Butleigh Wootton. We have had many comments from our friends and family saying what a beautiful and personal service it was and hwo you showed a most appropriate sense of occasion. You were easy going but at the same time treated the occasion seriously, which was exactly what we wanted."
Suzanne and Andrew
"To the day I die I shall never forget my poem "if ever two were one." And the words of Kahlil Gibran shall always be in my mind and my heart as a reminder of why Michael and I love each other. We are both ecstatically happy and thank you very much for bringing us together in matrimony. The ceremony was very beautiful and your direction and assertive guidance was very much valued. … a brilliant day it was. There were many comments on your sincere and professional delivery."
Judi and Michael
"We thought you delivered the ceremony with a lot of sincerity and feeling and you made a lasting impression on our guests." Julie and Stephen (Celebrant's note: A choir from a girls school sang "Truly, Madly Deeply" after Savage Garden at this wedding!) "A meaningful and unforgettable ceremony. All your advice helped us. The ceremony was perfect. Many people commented on how wonderful it was to hear the speakers and see the bride and groom's faces rather than the backs of their heads. It was a magical day. Thank you for all your time, effort and support."
Fiona and Dan