A friend or family member can legally marry you only if they are authorised to solemnise marriages in Australia. An online ordination or being a confident public speaker is not enough.

They can still have a wonderful part in your day. Your authorised celebrant can conduct the legal marriage while your friend welcomes guests, tells your story or leads a reading. Agree on the roles beforehand so everyone understands who is conducting the marriage and when the legal wording occurs.

Another option is a separate legal ceremony followed by a personal celebration. Tell your celebrant exactly what you have in mind and check the celebrant’s authorisation through the Australian Government register.