Yes, you can absolutely write your own vows—and many couples do! Personal vows are a beautiful way to express your love, humour, promises, and personality.

However, there is one important rule:
You must each say a legally required sentence during the ceremony, which cannot be changed.

The legal vow is:

“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, [full name], take you, [partner’s full name], to be my lawful wedded [husband/wife/spouse].”

This sentence must be spoken aloud, in full, and clearly understood by both parties and witnesses. It can be followed or preceded by your own personal vows.

💡 Your celebrant can help you:

  • Incorporate your creative vows around the legal ones

  • Provide templates or examples to get you started

  • Make sure the flow of the ceremony feels natural and meaningful

So whether you want heartfelt poetry or a promise to share the last slice of pizza—your words are welcome.