A rehearsal is optional, but it can help everyone feel more comfortable. It is particularly useful when there are several speakers, children, music cues, cultural elements or an unfamiliar venue layout.

You can practise entrances, where to stand, microphone use, the signing and the exit without giving away your personal vows. For a small ceremony, a conversation and a simple running sheet may be enough.

Ask your celebrant what they recommend and whether a rehearsal is included or charged separately. A rehearsal does not replace the legal preparations, including the celebrant’s separate, in-person meeting with each of you before the marriage.

What is worth practising?

  • The entrance: who goes first, the music cue and where everyone stops.
  • The setup: where to stand, who holds the rings and how to use the microphone.
  • The helpers: when readers, children or family members join in.
  • The finish: where signing happens and how you leave together.

You can keep your personal vows a surprise. Practise the movements and handovers, not every word.